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WOLFSPARK

42 - Bi

Devon, United Kingdom

Jul 28, 2018 20:20

I think that I'm alternative in a whole different way from most everyone on this site. I'm basing this mostly on my musical taste V everyone else I've seen on here! I like folk music....far less keen on the bangy, noisy, can't-hear-the-lyrics stuff out there..... Good folk, not so good folk & slightly off-key folk is fine with me, with a few other things thrown in for good measure.

I really like words on paper...I use less of them in person than written down I think.

I also sometimes quite like profiles which are lists, so with that in mind....

I Am:
*a hippie
*a feminist
*my own brand of unusual

I Am Looking For:
*new friends
*people to chat to (on line, in person, whatever)
*people to go for coffee with
*nice connections
*things to make me smile

Things I Like Include:
*animals...horses...living things...plants.... I save small animals or insects, I can't see a beetle on it's back and not turn it over....
*quiet times with sound involved....netflix in the background, Harry Potter audio
*supernatural things to watch (I have a new-found obsession for Shadowhunters, Magnus in particular)
*books, words on paper
*visiting new places
*tattoos
*food in pubs by an open fire
*good photographs
*women who are real, natural, calm
*good hair, pretty eyes, inimitable style

Things I Dislike Include:
*bad photographs (including pouting, snapchat filters & n*des before I know you)
*hearing the phrase 'music is my life'. I don't know why I dislike this so much, maybe because I listen to very little music. The exception is those for whom music *is* their life (ie: in a band, play an instrument, sing, y'know)
*clubbing, pubbing, excess drinking, loud places, crowded places, unnecessary noise
*unkindness
*unfairness
*a lack of distinction between 'your' and 'you're'
*'txt spk
*people saying 'I'm just me'. Evidently. That tells me nothing.

I do not have a Smartphone. I don't think I ever want one. I can't be dealing with the idea of being on the 'phone constantly, nor can I really be dealing with that in other people. Talk, sit in silence together, watch things, be there, don't be on the 'phone.

I am not looking for a new relationship, mostly because I do not think I can be dealing again with the hurt that comes with them when they end, not because I don't want someone to be close to. However, I am currently A Cynic. I absolutely need friendship first and beyond that I have no idea.....

I guess generally I'm mostly gay, but I'm also open to the pretty boys with makeup on....I don't believe in the gender binary particularly. I am 80% monogamous and 20% open to ETHICAL non-monogamy....I guess I mean that, with the right person, I am open to options beyond conventional 'mono, marriage, children/cats'. I guess I also mean that, with the right person, I am open to the conventional 'mono, marriage, cats/children'. I loved my last ethically-open relationship. I loved my last monogamous relationship. I do not love that either of those ended.

I am damaged, but I have no denial of this. I worry but I have ways to manage it now. I have no problem with problems, issues, damage. I like conversation about them, not keeping them hidden away. I do not expect perfection in others. It really is ok that you are still friends with your ex. It really is ok that you have history. It is ok that you want to talk about....anything.

I'm tactile when close to someone, I hold hands. I consider someone. I have few close friends, I do not socialise easily. I have just re-located and started a horse-based business, so not only do I know no one where I live now, I have very little time to meet them. I change the hair on my head quite a bit and I don't shave the hair on the rest of me...yes, I like it, yes I'm keeping it that way, yes I like women's armpits when they're natural.

If I looked at your profile I guess I liked your picture (I guess I thought it was a good one in some way....). I don't send many 'first messages' (introvert). If you choose to message me please say more than 'hi' or 'hey there'. I can't reply to that, I don't know what to say.

I'm really not anywhere near as annoyed as this profile makes me sound. I tend to be very easily pleased with simple things and fairly low maintenance in my own way.

If you've read this far, say hi

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