I AM A 60 YEAR OLD TRANSGENDER WHO IS MARRIED TO MY 55 YEAR OLD LESBIAN SWEETHEART, WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED A LITTLE OVER 40 YEARS AND HAVE 6 KIDS, MY WIFE AND FRIENDS WOULD SAY THAT I HAVE A TENDENCY TO GET ***** AND GO OVER THE EDGE IN TRYING DIFFERENT THINGS, ESPECIALLY WITH THEM, AND THEY ARE RIGHT, I CAN GO OFF THE DEEP END WHEN I FEEL LIKE IT