I like more of the old school goth esthetic. I don't dress goth all the time, but my closet is 80% black. There aren't many goth events where I am, but I do enjoy them when they happen. I'm in an open and loving marriage to a non goth man. As I've gotten older, I've realized I may be more than one person can handle and I'm ok with that. I'm not currently seeing anyone aside from my main. I will always be honest if I'm considering a relationship with someone. Polyamory doesn't mean everyone is invited. If I'm adding someone to my life, they are special and I'm choosy. I'm a romantic, I'm a goofball, I'm a big fan of intelligence. I'm just me. I like me and maybe you will too.