Well I just got out of a horrible relationship, My Ex cheated on me and left me for a 58 yo guy who bought her off, and this was after I bought our first house. I guess the good news is that I have a bachelor's pad now lol. I know I shouldn't find humor in that situation, but i do now. 3 months ago not so funny... I'm not picky on what a girl is doing with her life She can have a life plan already, or if she is still trying to find her way. If I find a woman her problems become my problems( well if she chooses) I will support my partner in every way. This doesn't mean i want to get in a serious relationship, but I'm not opposed to the idea. I don't have strict views in life, and it seems like my life goes to the beat of a different drum than most guys. So I don't care how weird you may think you are I'm pretty indifferent. I do want a girl who is in decent shape they don't have to drop dead gorgeous. I know I'm not Brad Pitt, but I do work out and I feel I also have great hygiene. I usually will save you first and wait to see if you do the same before I will talk to you, cause I am a little shy and its the closest thing to flirting on here. I just want to share my love with someone special again it doesn't have to be serious it can just be hanging out ( like dinner or movies, or even miniature golf).