I am not perfect. My flaws don't make me ugly. I'm incredible, intelligent, driven, and hilarious. Some folks take me as I am until I don't change for them. Not my fault and in tired of being judged and I will not make excuses. My family comes first. Circumstances beyond my control forced me from a home of my own. I live alongside of my my mother and my brother. She's in dire financial straights and my brother is an army vet that is managing life with PTSD. He is my hero and best friend. You need to have an open mind and a free spirit. Don't judge me or get angry when I don't change for you. My kids are my life. I've got three of them. Going on four. I see them every weekend. I've got a huge heart that gets me in a lot of trouble. I'm big and brawny. They call me the barbarian. You hurt animals or children, women or the homeless I cannot be with you. Humor is my best defense aside from super strength and inhuman endurance. Just out of a controlling 10 year marriage so I'm going slow. Want to get out more. Life is for living. Want to go to music shows. Home bodies are also legit. Don't be a hateful stick in the mud. Let's do this s**t.