I've been out of my crytp for the last 13 years. Before showing my true self to the world, I got married & became a mom. Marriage didn't work, we have joint custody. I'm unafraid of my imperfections, unafraid of "what other people will think of me", dislike the phrase "...like everyone else".
"Goth am I...deal with it!", not to sound rude, but that's just me.