I'm a nerdy dad. I'm in a open relationship with my sons mother, we live together and she is my best friend. Our son always comes first and there's no wierd jealousy or anything between us. W'e're both poly and non-monogamous. And we keep open communication about everything. No secrets or lies.
With that out of the way, I personally am a nerdy sweetheart. I absolutely love s*x, in all aspects. Conversation, giving, receiving, playing, flirting. Mental s*x. ****. Love it all!