I'm pretty straight forward, no BS. Iif you're looking for a submissive 'barbie' type, I'm not your gal. I'm a sarcastic, slightly nerdy, slightly gothy kind of girl, with a bit of a sailor mouth. I have no problem forming and stating my own opinion.
I would not consider myself a 'high maintenance' type girl. "Doing" my hair consists of running a brush through it. I don't own a blow drier or hairspray. My makeup application takes a solid 2 minutes. But on the other hand...I REALLY like shoes. I don't form the opinion I have of myself based on what others think, or what the standard of beauty is. I'm me...and that's all I can ever be.
My free time at home is often spent playing MMORPGs (yes, girls really do play video games). I think video games have become more of a thing that I do because I have nothing else to burn my free time with at this point. I also work on a variety of more creative outlets. I paint or design and make my own clothes (think Project Runway).
My taste in music is pretty bizarre. I listen to a few sub genres of Industrial music: EBM, powernoise, aggrotech. It's kind of like really angry techno music. I used to go to a lot of concerts, and still enjoy going once in awhile. I stopped doing it all the time because I got one of those silly 8:00 - 4:00 type jobs and I just don't have THAT much energy. Anyway, while this is my favorite music, I am flexible with some other more common artists out there. If it has a good beat, I can usually deal with it.
I'm a crazy cat lady. Well...only a little crazy and there are only 2 cats. I undoubtedly consider them my family, and someone who dislikes cats is a deal breaker.
A few things I'm looking for...I'm searching for a guy to balance me out. I've always found myself going for 'bad boys', but I think what I really need is quite the opposite - someone sweet, funny, and open minded. I think I'm a bit of a pessimist, and so someone a little more cheery would be a good match. I strongly value honesty and a good moral code (despite the lack of strong religion). And someone who isn't afraid to admit when they're wrong and doesn't like the idea of going to bed mad. I hate waking up in the morning with that sinking realization that you're in the middle of a fight.
It's safe to say, if you're very religious, I'm probably not your gal. Also, if you identify as conservative...you might want to keep your distance.