I am 44, divorced, children that live with me part time. I am well read, open minded, and just a normal guy who works, has hobbies, family, friends, etc. my thoughts and kinks are not out and I fit into the vanilla world. I am looking for a "normal" woman that has work, hobbies, family, friends, etc. I don't want a freak show except behind closed doors. I am looking for a woman who is intellectually and psychologically capable of wearing the pants. A matriarch that has our best interests in mind. I am not a door mat and you should value my opinions and efforts. However, know how to be the leader and see that the rules are followed through discipline. I work, have common masculine hobbies, am a man and will continue to be. Now, just to be upfront. I have strong kinks such as cuckold, femdom, pegging, chastity, sissy hubby, etc. If you also have those needs then we can have that as a premiss and go from there. Let's just be open books. I would rather talk.