Hello, My name is Mark, I'm a 38 year old guy. I love most kinds of music, music is a big part of my life, I hate not having music on. I love to cook for people (i am an involuntary vegan I might add) and enjoy nothing more than cuddling up on a sofa with a nice bottle of wine of a night. I have a very bizarre and obscure sense of humour and tend to be very silly at times. I have written and self-published two Crime thriller novels, and am currently working on a third and fourth. Unfortunately, I am a bit of a grammar nazi, I can't help it though, I do it without realizing most of the time, and I absolutely despise text slang.
I have been married once and have 2 children, Lenore and Vincent, who both live with my ex-wife. I'm VERY painfully shy and will rarely be the first person to message, since I am perpetually convinced that if I approach a woman, I will get laughed at. However, if I get involved in a conversation, it does tend to go away fairly quickly as I gain confidence in talking with whomever it might be. I'm an expert at putting my foot in it and saying things that can easily be misinterpreted. All I want is to be happy and meet someone who will love me as much as I love them. I'm looking for a proper relationship, I am NOT a one night stand kinda guy, never have been, never will be, I would much rather have an emotional connection with someone. I have been lied to, cheated and used too many times for me to count and I'm sick of it so if you're just out for a quick thrill, forget it, I refuse to be screwed over again.
I suffer with Borderline Personality Disorder and severe depression, but for the most part, I can keep it well under control. I'd rather people know about this sooner rather than later as this is a fact that has put a lot of people off me in the past; they will talk to me for weeks with no issue, but as soon as my BPD gets mentioned, they blank me and never speak to me again, no matter how well we may have been getting on beforehand. It's a sad fact that people seem to judge you by your issues and not by who you are.
I smoke, I drink, I DESPISE drugs and will absolutely not tolerate a potential partner using them.
I'm the lead vocalist in a death metal band called "Thy Demise", I Build electric guitars and I make 3D models for the online game Second Life. I am also a published Author.
Oh... and I terrified of dogs.
- Heavy music
- Spoiling People
- Piercings (I currently have 12... for now)
- Tattoos (I currently have 4)
- People who waste my time
- People who make false promises and lead me on only to totally ignore me and drop me like a bad habit.
- *PEOPLE WHO JUDGE ME UNFAIRLY ABOUT THINGS JUST BECAUSE I HAVE TROUBLE DOING THEM*
- Harry Potter or anything marginally related to that thieving bitch J.K. Rowling
if you'd rather talk to me using a better chat system, just ask for my skype or facebook.