I'm a freaky gentleman.
The "handle" above comes from Kahlil Gibran's The Prophet and an old OKC profile I lost. More on The Prophet later.
I've been in Memphis since summer of 2010. Love the city. 2011 was a rollercoaster year. 2012 looks exciting as well. I've explored some of the city and look forward to exploring more. Starting in 2012, I will begin checking out the "tourist" sites and local museums on monthly basis. I have lived a lot of places and never saw some of the local attractions. You always think you have time. Can go anytime. And then, I leave and smack myself in the forehead and wonder how I missed that.
I'm early 40's whitecollar professional with inner punk/goth/hippie/kinkster/geek inside trying to get out. It runs free in evenings and weekends. I cover it up with Land's End button up dress shirts for work. Somehow, I think it might raise eyebrows if I came to work in a kilt. I enjoy my work and am good at it, but everyone I work with seems uber conservative and religious. That isn't me.
I moved from downtown to Midtown right before Thanksgiving and already feel more at home. I do not play an instrument, sing in a band, or have an alcohol or drug problem. A friend says that makes me different from a lot of Midtown guys. Maybe I should work on that? I'm a dancer, not a singer so singing is out. Learning an instrument is way too complicated. I guess it's substance abuse. Yay! Problem is, I don't much like the taste of alcohol. It's tough to look dashing and studly if your fruity rum drink has more accessories than the average Kardashian. I'll be the Midtown lush on the dance floor drinking Bailey's.
I have been in the swinger lifestyle for a long time and have gradually explored a more dominant orientation. I am looking to explore that fully going forward.