i'm a 62 year old guy looking for a special connection. It seems to defy labels and definitions. I simply give up on the belief that there is a connection out with a lady, that is so strong, connected, soul melded and committed that she would feel loved pushing the limits of pleasure just a bit. Might call it "slightly sub". It might be termed a "higher level of love". I don't exactly have the words for it yet. A relationship so strong that nothing can hurt it...because love says, do nothing to hurt the other person....A wife who wants to serve and obey within limits because that is who she is and wants to fulfill her husbands needs and desires. I think it's the missing link. it's all about "connection" and all that entails, not about no regard for the other. Quite the opposite ! I have been alone and celibate for too long but prefer that to being with the wrong one.
I can no longer leap buildings in a single bound but I'm not dead yet, need to loose some weight, don't live a glamorous lifestyle or have a lot of money. I am honest, fun loving and sometimes just a bit crazy. I think both parties to this connection won't be happy until they both have their "missing link".
I'm new here so will try to expand on this. Any help or conversations about this would be greatly appreciated. I only respond to "nice" genuine people.