My theory/mantra/ way of thinking is the friendship is the strongest and most important relationship between two people. Anything after that is extra. But if I wouldn't call someone my friend... I wouldn't consider them being anything more
Mainly I like sitting in beer gardens with a pint and a book

If anyone fancies joining me in either a platonic or other capacity.......gimme a shout

P.S I'd rather people didn't 'Wink' me. Even a message saying 'hi how are u?' would be better. In real life would u want to engage in conversation with someone who didn't talk to you, just came over and winked at u? Hmm. Think on that one.