I have a decent job, own house etc, so looking to meet someone in the same sort of situation... Musician, cat and chicken mom... Like a bit of escapism with a good book, or game... Prefer guys a few years younger than me (as I look about 10 years younger than I am - actually just turned 41 (never put a real birthdate on a website))... Not keen on beards - but i can forgive a few... Love long hair... Not got kids.. never been the right time/place/person and i'm not one to 'fix' a relationship by adding more complication... Looks aren't everything though... I prefer weird looking and quirky - to dumb and uninteresting...
Also vegan - doesn't mean I only date vegans, but at least respectful and v curious would be good...
Not into poly relationships - please don't ask. Completely loyal to 1 man only. Kinda pointless messaging me if we're miles away - not looking for penpals... and although it's flattering - I'm not looking for a much younger guy... so early 30's is about right...
If I don't reply I'm not interested. Don't be offended. I don't believe in leading people on - like I don't want to be led on... Not likely to make the first move... Quite shy... Prefer shy guys too... and i'm very wary... People seem to think that people are nicer in the 'alternative' community, but truth is they're just as bad, sometimes even worse - as there seems to be a lot of girls to few guys - so guys can pick and choose.... but hey if you're chasing lots of girls - i'm not interested... If you're into looks rather than personality - you're gonna live a boring life...
Nice to meet new people sometimes if no attraction too... Always good to add to social group...
