how do I come across diferrent than the rest of the men on this site?.well,lets start by telling you that,i don't lie!as liars get found out!..so I wil be straight!..im 33..living with me and my 18 month old love of my life! KUCHAR!!!,my loyal companion,staffie!!!..I know I don't look too gothicly!..but every year me and my pal,always go to Whitby gothic weekend!and love it!!...I love sigue sigue sputnik and hawkwind!...im on here to make some friends,and who knows leading to something else?..if we click?...its taken me too long to get out there and meet new people!..maybe its because I had a bad accident,by putting my arm through a window.and cutting through my muscle,tendons and nerves,leading to me having 4 ops to sew them back together.and 2 skin grafts to cover the wound!..i was lying in a hospital bed for near on 6 weeks!..thats a lot of time on your own to think!.trust me!!..so I think that's the nudge I needed?.