I love to laugh. I am socially and politically aware. That means I do my own research and don't get my beliefs from a Facebook Meme. I am a strong independent woman looking for someone who can appreciate that. I grew up in the DC Alternative/Punk Scene. Back when it was good! The old 9:30 club. Most men my age are not into the music that I like or that I always were black and prefer a leather jacket and boots over a dress and heels.
I think relationships are 100%/100%. Physical attraction is one thing but if you can't make each other laugh and have deep conversations what is the point? If you want a woman to worship you and take care of you I am not her. I want a partner not another child. I am new to the dating scene and would like to talk to people and get to know them before I meet them. Yes, I get chemistry. Yes, it is important, but if that's all you have then you won't have a lasting relationship.
Also, I really do look younger than I am. I am 51. I am not lying. My pictures are 100% no filter and all taken within the past few months. I don't want a sugar daddy. I make good money and can support myself and plus that is just gross. I could never be with someone just for money. That being said I am not a cougar and don't want to be anyone's sugar mama either. I raised two boys and I am done.
I will have to talk to you on the phone before we meet. Texting is not a way to gauge compatibility. I want to know what music you like, what movies you like, if you can handle my personality, etc. I am no shrinking violet. I am not here for s*x. I like s*x in a relationship. If I wanted a one night stand I could go to a bar and find someone! Once again that is just gross. That is not me! Please no bible thumpers. My soul does not need to be saved. My soul is just wonderful, thank you. My age range is 45 to 55. Please don't message me if you are not in that range. I may give on 1 or 2 years, but trust me, if you are in your late 50's or early 60's we will not get along.
I have a career not a job. Some men are threatened by that, others want to take advantage.
I like to joke around. I have a dark sense of humor sometimes. I like to hang out both as a couple and with other people. I have no problem with hobbies and spending time apart. Life is too short! I want to have fun. Dance, listen to music, go see bands, etc.
If you have trust issues please hit the X. I have never cheated and I never will so I won't be punished for your past relationships.
If you have no pictures I am going to assume there is a reason, like maybe you are married??? Don't bother messaging me. Also, if your profile looks like it was written by someone's cheesy idea of what a Woman wants. I am not interested. Tell me who you are. Who doesn't like to walk on the beach? Be real.
